Understanding slave needs

Every slave has needs! The simple fact that we are human beings, sexual human beings, thinking human beings, feeling and loving human beings, means that we have needs, wants, wishes, hopes and dreams. Being a human being with a slave nature means it is essential that we know what our needs are and how we must use those needs to serve a Master! Sounds a little backward? Not at all. As slaves, we serve because of our need to serve. it is as simple as that.

Understanding self and needs, will not only help us in our search for our Master, but will enhance our relationship with our Master. Knowing what we want and need and what we believe, helps to prepare us to explain our chosen vocation as slaves as well as helps others to understand our lifestyle and maybe most important, we are better able to defend our lifestyle!

Here’s what i need as a man, as a human being!

Why i am a slave?

my need for slavery comes from my innate submissive nature.

What drives me?

1. Desire to serve -to do and obey the Will of Another.
2. Desire to belong -to be Owned and therefore a part of someone.
3. Need for Discipline -to live in a structured environment with Protocols, protected from my submissive nature.
4. Masochistic Needs

slave views itself as:

...a partner with Master on the Journey to achieve a mutual trusting, respectful and nurturing Master/slave life together.

...a compliment to Master's Yin.

...a part of a Whole Master/slave family, relationship, etc.

...an extension of the Master's Integrity, Character, Strength.

slave views itself as:

...a source of pride to the Master and itself.

...a source of joy to the Master and itself.

...a source of pleasure to the Master and itself.

and perhaps most important

...a resource to enrich the life to the Master just as Master Enriches the life of this slave.

The Perfect Master/Dominant/Man

A Man Who:

• Commands respect without Saying a Word.

• Commands my submission without Saying a Word.

• Knows how to Accept the gift of my surrender, and How to Give the gift of His Domination.

• Accepts the little boy within me and Will Share the Little Boy Within Himself.

• Will Nurture the little boy in me, While Respecting the man that i am.

• Knows how to Use me for His Pleasure and mine.

• Is Disciplined enough to Provide the Discipline i need.

• Is naturally a Master, not playing a role.

• Is Proud of and Comfortable with His Master Nature.

• Knows what He Likes and Wants and Does not Apologize for It.

• Leads by Listening.

• Needs my service.

• Will accept my overwhelming desire to give away control of my life, in full trust to Him.

• Makes me want to be a not only a better slave, but a better human being also.

• Understands that giving my life to someone that needs my services enriches my Life and His Life.

• Is willing to share His Life, His Work, His Spirit, His Body and His Scent with me.

• Understands that a Slap and a Kiss are both gifts and Knows when each need to be Given.

• Has a Hairy Body, if not then at least Crotch, Balls, and Ass Hole.

• Loves Full Body tongue baths.

• Skilled in BDSM Techniques and Control

• Challenges me mentally and physically.

• Will Use me to enrich His Life just as He enriches mine.

• Smiles as He Administers SM pain/pleasure.

• Makes the same Commitment to the Master/slave relationship that He Demands of me.

• Acknowledges slaves need for structured protocol and is Willing to put Time and Effort in Providing such a structure.

The Perfect Master/Dominant/Man...

• Is Emotionally Stable and Psychologically Balanced.

• Thrives on both Control and Responsibility.

• Is not Afraid of His Feelings or the feelings of His slave.

• Is Sadistic but not from Anger.

• Has Arrogance that comes from Self Confidence.

• Has Pride in His Master Nature and Pride in the submissive nature of His slave.

• Is as Comfortable in Cuddling as Doing Bondage, in Conversation as in Ordering, Treating me as a Friend as Treating me as a slave, Treating me as a Partner as Treating me as His pet dog.

• Is a Man Who understands that my greatest sexual pleasure comes when i strip myself of all my limitations and stand naked before Him ready to receive His Commands to Love and Serve him.

• Provides the conditions for me to surrender myself in submission and obedience to His Will, helping me to obtain deeper actualization of my slave nature as i satisfy His Desires.